When We Curhat
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When We Curhat
We ramble and reflect a lot with each other anyway, might as well record it as a podcast. FYI: “Curhat” or “CURahan HATi” is an Indonesian term that literally means “pouring one’s heart out”. You’ll see what we mean :)
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Pick up the hint.
Heads up, this one is a full on vent. We rant about times when people are just too oblivious and can’t seem to pick up our hints.
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Thinking, on steroids.
Two overthinkers talking about overthinking.
Got a curhat? Tell us what you overthink about. Share topic ideas to @whenwecurhat on Instagram!
Are we too nice?
Also known as being people pleasers. We talk about being “too nice” (re: people pleaser), and discuss how to unlearn that need to be liked. Really, no...
Getting pissed off.
We talk about how we deal with one of the “thorniest” emotions: anger. But mind you, we are both in the passive aggressive camp. We dissect that emoti...
When we catch feelings.
How do you express and experience love? Some gestures make you more likely to develop or catch feelings. Come listen to us attempting to decode the di...
(How to) quit denying your emotions.
Feelings aren’t icky (anymore). Talking about our love story (podcast anniversary) got us rambling about some pragmatic strategies when dealing with e...
Do you talk to yourself?
We OBVIOUSLY do. It’s a Bonus Episode! Our FIRST EVER recording (please excuse the sound quality, this was an impromptu iPhone recording). This is the...
Valentine’s Day: A Debate
Half of us in this episode are realists, and the other half are romantics. Guess which one of us appreciates and loves the idea of Valentine's Day, an...
We miss planes.
We reminisce on an activity that is impossible to do during the pandemic: Traveling. Also, a preparation for when traveling becomes a thing again. We...
How to "sibling"
In this episode, we both will share with you the duties and obligations on how to be the best sister in the world. Just kidding. To all “only child” o...
2020: A Recap
This wouldn’t be an end (and beginning) of the year episode without an annual reflection.
In this episode we reflect and share highlights from o...
Have fun, but don’t be stupid.
A hopeful and cynical take on starting relationships. We talk about mindsets. We talk about safeguards. We curhat about navigating uncertainties, and...
Why are relationships so scary?
We know it’s not supposed to be. Here we talk about why it's so scary by confronting our attachment styles. What’s your attachment style? Find out her...
Swipe, swipe, swipe. Pt. II
This two-part episode is a story about meeting people online, and by online we mean – you know – dating app. This episode is a special one because we...
Swipe, swipe, swipe. Pt. I
This two-part episode is a story about meeting people online, and by online we mean – you know – dating app. This episode is a special one because we...
Best of both worlds.
Are you loud and obnoxious? Or quiet and conscientious? Does your mouth move before your brain or do you overthink to the point of not saying anything...
Remember when you were 5?
They say you don’t really change since you were a kid. From just being weird in general to dunking oreo in water, we discuss how true it is for us. Th...
Confidence, it’s hard.
But we’re trying. Insecurity comes and goes, which is what we’re rambling about in this episode.
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Dear Bad Texter
A conversation between a bad texter and a decent texter.
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Crushes (and dealing with it).
How we flirt and how we don’t. Apparently, we crush on people differently. But we agree on one thing: It can be fun and/or annoying.
Emotions, out loud.
Is talking about your feelings a “white” thing? Some things we cover in this episode: Swallowing your feelings. Feeling misunderstood and invalidated....